Live it. Leave it. Live again


Your whole life is spent making something. Whether you realize it or even care to acknowledge the fact, you’re making something with each second that expires. Possessing an unwillingness to appreciate this condition doesn’t jeopardize its existence. A life is made therefore a life can be lived. Consider it a self-fulfilling prophesy. A lot can […]

Do you like where you’re going?


“Shut up.” (Not you. Me.) Sometimes I need to hear it. Sometimes these times are times when I’m by myself. So, sometimes I need to say it. One of these times happened the other day. I was catching the infamous J.D. Campbell up on recent happenings. I happened to mention that there were a few […]

The story you tell yourself


Gary is drinking a cup of coffee. While he’s enjoying his java an EEG is administered. This measures the electrical activity of Gary’s brain. Not too long after Gary is asked to close his eyes and think about drinking that cup of coffee again. A second EEG reveals something intriguing. It’s very similar to the […]

Real old things


It’s the associations that intrigue me. The essence that’s become as much a part of the object as the object itself. Who made it? Who bought it? Who owned it? What did they do in its presence? What conversations has this patient little fly on the wall enjoyed? How many lives has it already lived […]

I believe


I believe in the cool side of the pillow. I believe fear is one path to the dark side. I believe you should encounter a long hug every day. I believe nobody knows how to push your buttons like you do.   I believe this is killing me, as the smile runs away from my […]

You’re a disappointment


Have you ever said this to yourself? I have. I remember, if you’ll allow me, the time I heard myself detonate the words, “You’re a failure.” Immediately, I fell speechless. What have I just said? From where would something so sinister hail? It’s clear we’re dealing with some weighty stuff, here. Best keep your head […]

Love exists


Love exists only in your mind. Or, so it’s been asserted, by a brilliant writer posing as a beagle named Indiana. Nevertheless, it’s a quite real thing most agree. Courage and commitment, similarly. At first I tipped my hat in agreement. Upon further deliberation, I think a case could be made that love, and therefor courage […]

It’s not for them to say


After working a full Saturday (doing what I love) I do what any other chap would do. I meet my wife at an essential oils party. Unfortunately, the oil oration has already concluded. Bummer. I peruse a display of volcano necklaces on view in one corner of the kitchen, with the Mrs. It’s rumored that […]

Going too far


You are driving down a road you don’t often travel. You’re visiting friends. You’ve only been to their house once before. You know their street has to be coming up but you’re not sure if it’s the next turn or the one after that. Or, the one after that one. Here comes one. Tap the […]