You hold in your hand a photograph. In it are folks you know well. They seem to be having a good time. Everyone looks a lot different. They’re younger. But what really stands out is what they’re wearing. I guess there was a time when people thought it was a good idea to wear that in public. Look at the furniture, too. Those are some interesting window valances. A small child could get lost in that carpet. You probably need special shoes for pile that high.
It’s common for us to look back at fashion choices now passed and wonder, “What was I thinking?” Everyone usually chuckles and consoles the person by reminding them “everyone was doing it” and “that’s what was in.”
I’m interested in the same question but for a different reason.
“What was I thinking?”
Literally.
What were you and I thinking “back then?”
What was important to us?
Why?
Ideas and values come in and out of style as well. Some never go away. They just lay dormant while we pretend they aren’t there. Others we change our perspective on but it’s not as obvious as changing the cut of our pants. Some of it is a matter of taste. Some of it is a flash. Some has staying power. When you look at the photograph of your values and perspective over time, what stands out? What’s obviously different? What’s changed but nobody but you is aware?
There are some things that never go out of style. Most of these are good. But not all are.
Then there are those fads that like to throw their weight around every so often. Some of them are harmless. We look back on them fondly. Some are plain dangerous. They leave lasting marks that take generations to heal.
The right photograph can tell you a lot about what you believe.
So, what do you see?
Now for the better question:
What do you want the next generation to see?
